You would actually be surprised. I know quite a few people who have zero desire to work out because their partners want them to be fat. I know a lot of people including family who enjoy being fat because quote from cousin “I look good” It’s not that I don’t care, but it’s human decency to help people. Not everybody wants to quit smoking, but are you gonna refrain from telling somebody they should quit just because you think they might want to? So it’s not your place?