What I meant by not caring was someone who jumped into my messages with the intent to argue and freak out. You’re conversing like a normal human being. And I think you’re still missing the point. Sure, the study shows how advice could provide the opposite. Most fat people want to work out, all of your claims aren’t, for one, guaranteed to apply to every obese person, and two, even if no one like me hands out advice to strangers, it still shouldn’t be encouraged in families, friendships, etc.