I’m not tone deaf to it, people can choose to read or not read my article. I am definitely not one to go out of my way to offend anybody, but if people happen to be offended by something I write than that’s Not my problem. What I label myself should not matter if I am not the cause for anyone’s dismay. That’s similar to people complaining that I didn’t write more exclusively for everybody. I write for men and women in heterosexual relationships. there’s nothing wrong with that. I have also written plenty of other pieces that portray the complete opposite of this article.