Actually agree with all of this. My church is very small and humble, maybe 60 people. There is a kid's church next to our building where the older kids can go in the younger kids can go if they want to, but they are more than welcome to sit with the adults. Luckily my church does not prioritize marriage as a gold medal. Our music is very simple, no crazy instruments or soundboards, just an acoustic guitar and a microphone lol. Whenever we do communion, they just roll it out on a foldable table. Nothing fancy at all. I've been to a big church before, and the theatrics are not entertaining. It is most definitely like idol worshiping when the entire church looks like an episode of cribs.