I am a heterosexual white woman. I enjoy being a homemaker, tending to my husband and child, and living in my ideal white picket fence fairytale. Why is that wrong? Just because society is progressing doesn’t mean that progression is adequate for everybody. There are still straight couples out there, and I should not be bombarded with hateful comments just because this is my preference or I choose to write about it.

Choice

I am a white woman, married to a black man. We share a beautiful child, a home, and gender roles you would associate with the good olé 1950s…

Before anybody jumps into the comments, obviously, a man most definitely needs to cater to a woman/man as well. But this article is for the men, and most importantly, for the men and women who think that the sole purpose, or existence of a man, is to please their partner. And yes, there is science behind this.

Biology

Men, naturally, can be more physical (sexually) than their female counterparts. Not saying that’s always the case; I am a nymphomaniac for chrissakes. However, most men crave physical attention akin to the way women crave emotional attention. Not to say a man doesn’t…

First, let’s get one thing straight. I love being dominated; my relationship isn’t toxic or abusive – I genuinely enjoy being subject to sexual deviance. I come from a dark past infested with sexual, mental, and physical abuse, and it’s easy to assume I have formed some resemblance to Stockholm syndrome. We could debate the evidence and studies on this topic, but at some point, we have to recognize that regardless of the reason behind this behavior, it’s still very much my choice and nothing is wrong with being locked in a cage.

…the research questions addressed whether personality traits…

There’s always a little voice in the back of our minds telling us to push a little bit further — to try it, just once. The voice that tells you to pull her hair, scratch his back, or let out a guttural scream even if your roommates can hear you. Have you ever thought about what would happen if you just let loose? Go with the flow? Experience every form of accessing you possibly can regardless of judgment from the world around you?

1. The voice within

Stop trying to hold the inner beast inside. If you want to scream, scream. Sex isn’t something…

Correct me if I’m wrong, which you won’t, but 99.9% of us grew up chasing the most attractive, humorous, whatever the damn quality was, we hunted the person we thought we wanted. Did you notice the problem in that sentence? No? Well, it was the word chase. I don’t care How cool, or attractive somebody is, unless they’re your child running down the street with a pair of scissors, nobody should be chased. They should be accessible based on communication, shared interests, and sexual electricity. Stop looking at that girl or guy like they’re too hard to get, or you’re…

Just because your penis is small does not mean you can’t perform. And just because your penis is large does not mean you can perform. They all come in different shapes and sizes, and regardless of their shape or size, it all depends on who knows how to drive a stick shift. I have had better sex with more petite people than I have with people who had 9 inches, to say the least. There are, without a doubt, many tricks and tips to utilize depending on your size.

Short and skinny

Just because you’re small doesn’t mean you can’t play ball. It’s…

Being catfished is The new norm of society. Love consists of ones and zeros for most of us, constantly searching for the next best one on social media sites and online dating apps. Online dating isn’t a bad thing. However, there are risks. Lies — lies are the risk you face each time you log in and talk to a random face without having physical contact. How many times have you met somebody on an app that seems too good to be true? Or, maybe they’re completely honest with everything they say, or are they? Do you really even know…

Men and women can both be faulty regarding how we convey intimate or private sexual interactions. We hear a lot about men, Mansplaining, expressing derogatory behavior, and over-sexualizing women. Still, I rarely see articles written about the issues women could work on in this sexual arena. We seem to be at a day and age where the burden gets put on the expected or stereotypical subject rather than focusing on both sides of the spectrum in a synonymous and deserving manner.

Pedestal syndrome

This doesn’t account for all women, but it does account for some. Just like there is toxic masculinity, there’s…