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4 Ways To Know If they Are Into Your Kink — Advice From A Nympho
People are reserved, it’s your job to analyze
I think it’s safe to say that only google search knows most of our deepest secrets. Our fetishes, kinks, desires. I suppose some of us are comfortable with voicing our desires, while the rest of us simply hint along until our partner recognizes our sexual desperation for a newfound intimacy.
How do we know if somebody will be into what we are? Say it’s something more taboo, more extreme, like water sports? Scat? Extreme BDSM? How do you go about bringing these topics up if you are uncomfortable with your own desires or if you are uncomfortable with rejection?
Once upon a time, I had an extreme desire to be peed on. I had no idea if my partner was into it; in fact, I was almost sure he wouldn’t be because of his complete disdain towards out-of-the-ordinary sexual activities. I struggled for months. Bringing up videos that I saw, asking opinions, basically hinting towards, hey! Do you want to pee on me? Eventually, I found my confidence; I decided that I would say it. And that’s precisely what I did. I said, water sports really turn me on; how do you feel about it? And to my surprise, aside from a little bit of shock, he obliged. Come to find out, we both enjoyed it. There is a system for figuring out if…
